A few weeks ago a friend of mine posted on her Facebook wall a post that said something like this: "What is something you can say you did, that no one else here can say they did?". The answers were incredible. They made me think about what it means to live an Extraordinary life. I believe our higher selves had a plan for us to come down to earth and have our desired experiences. My plan was to live an Extraordinary life. My bucket list is filled with unique experiences, and so is my past. When reading the answers to the post, I realized I could divide them between experiences that sound amazing to me and which I would maybe add to my bucket list (such as volunteering in a Panda Sanctuary), and experiences that are unique, but definitely not desired in my eyes (such as having triplets). So the question is, do YOU want to live an Extraordinary life, or do you want to live a safe, stable, and predictable life? Do you want to be unique, or do you prefer to be perceived as "normal" and to blend in?
There isn't a right answer or a wrong answer. There is only an authentic answer. You might not want an Extraordinary life, but everyone wants to live their Best Life and be their Best Self. It's important to explore the conscious mind and the subconscious mind and truly grasp which experiences our higher self is desiring for us to experience. Have no doubt- there are no "coincidences", and in a world of attraction (not assertion) we are creating our reality based on our desires and levels of resistance to our desires. Aligning with the higher self is the path for becoming the best version of ourselves. Clearing the subconscious from outside influences is the way to reach our ultimate truth. The soul's desires are often clouded by energetic imprints from past experiences (often past lives experiences) as well as environmental influences.
When making the decisions that shaped your current reality, how much of an effect did your environment have on you? Are you doing what you want to be doing, or what you were told would be the right path for you? Have you pushed aside certain passions because of fear of failure? Are you not manifesting great success because you don't feel you truly deserve it? Did you get "stuck" somewhere along the path because of fear of taking a turn off that path? What options are out there but are beyond the realm of your awareness? And most importantly, once you realize you are not living your best life- then what?!
Then you figure out which tools are at your disposal and what your plan for living your best life is. There are so many tools out there! Just make sure you address your subconscious, as it holds 95% of your beliefs, desires, fears, habits, etc. There are two major steps in achieving your dreams- the first step is figuring out what your dreams actually are. Some people already know what their dreams are, while others need help in achieving clarity. Often you might think you know what you want, but once you achieve what you wanted you then realize you were chasing after the wrong dream. So in this step you need to clear influences from your childhood and your past lives, and you need to heal and integrate the parts of you which are sabotaging your success (inner child, inner critic, etc.). The second step is to retrieve and amplify your talents, strong suits, passions, and positive energy. You need to shift your perspective about what is possible for you and Align with your true nature, which is that of a Spiritual being that creates its own reality. The shift in your perspective will result in a Vibrational shift, which will then result in attracting only that which is a Vibrational match to your new High Vibration. In other words, by healing and re-training your conscious and subconscious minds, you will achieve the clarity you desire and manifest your ideal life! So let the manifesting of Your Dream Life begin!
Many blessings from me to you,
Transformational Leader, Hypnotherapist,