Self-Love, the greatest achievement of all!

People who come to me complaining that they are not treated well by others all have one thing in common. Somewhere, maybe deep inside their subconscious minds, they don't really believe they DESERVE to be treated well. Don't shoot the messenger- I really wish this wasn't the case, but it has been my observation, which is confirmed in our work together, 100% of the time.

It's hard to gain clarity around what we think about ourselves. Sure, plenty of people know that they don't have a very high self-esteem, have a loud inner-critic, or that they lack good boundaries. Plenty of people also know where the issue is coming from- being treated poorly in childhood, witnessing an unhealthy relationship dynamic among the parents, a scrutinizing teacher or religious figure. etc. 

​But here's what most people don't know. We tend to "pick up where we left off" by actually picking up the resistance energy we left here on earth during our previous lifetimes. This can be seen as "Karma" which doesn't mean "punishment" like many people believe, but rather means "action and result". Our past life experiences often leave an energetic imprint on us, unless we get rid of it by finding healing and by letting go of that which no longer serves us. 

So if someone treats you badly in this life, does that mean that you treated that person badly in a previous life? Maybe, or maybe you are still working on improving your self esteem, and you "attract" disrespectful behavior from people, even those who usually are respectful towards others. Does that mean you should accept the bad behavior? Absolutely not! The whole point is to evolve and to actually learn the lesson, so that the Universe doesn't keep delivering it to you.

How you learn the lesson is a different story. Since the feelings of unworthiness are seated deep in the subconscious mind- that's where you need to go in order to shift them into feelings of worthiness. There are different types of Hypnosis sessions that in combination can help you achieve just that! Then, once you begin loving yourself completely, and having a deep appreciation for yourself, the Universe will support your beliefs and you will be loved and appreciated.  

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